Tuesday, January 13, 2015

There are NO words sometimes...

Pulls out podium, grabs mic, proceeds...(it's VERY long...whatevs)

Today, I pray for unity in the body of Christ. If we shouldn't give up on justice for all of mankind, then I certainly shouldn't faint in believing that believers can come together.

Different members but ONE body.

What's going on? Hands are criticizing feet, eyes look down on mouths, arms not cooperating with legs and so on. Never met a body with so much discord. Can't get anything done let alone actually have productive movement.

Spirit is deeply disturbed.

Folks ain't saved because they don't look like you, talk like you, listen to what you like, say what you like and more.
We say things like "I love you, but God never said I had to like you."


You actually have the audacity to look at who God chose before the foundation of the world, sent His Son to die for, a replica of His image and say you don't like them?
And God is cool with that?

I've offended you.

It's an offense to God that we carry on in a such a manner.
The world is looking at us refusing to join NOT because they're so rebellious but because look at how we treat our own.
We have made "ministry" out of calling each other false, we preach our preferences from the pulpit instead of the Word, punish folks for not "behaving," and then get found out in a Scandal because while the Word of God isn't hard to follow, being under the pressure of other people's perverted/distorted expectations is. I can wear white, shake my tambourine, but who showed me how to fix my heart?
The only thing new on you is your clothes because irresponsible religion can only offer external solutions to an internal problem. (You'll get that later.)

Shame on us.

My brother/my sister, you may be different from me, but you're still valuable.
We may not agree on somethings, but I will not take to Social Media (or anywhere else) to hurt you, defame you, and attack you.
You may be more "Andrae Crouch" and I may be more "Tye Tribbett," but as long as we love Jesus and bear fruit, who's really tripping?
You may meet God at 5 am (I like to sleep) and my encounters are later in the day) but as long as we spend time with Him what makes your way superior to mine?

Don't you see? While we're having these menial discussions...
We are losing a generation.
We are missing the point.
And we can't hide the truth because I see what we like and share and re-post of Facebook.

Gospel music is our thing now because, well, we look foolish at our age jamming to Bobby Schurmda! So, now, we are advocates of a "standard," that we can't even agree on because I'm wrong for going to see Beyonce but you haven't missed a 90's band when they come to Howard Theater for a Slow Jams and Sex Tour! (I saw the pics. I wasn't mad. I want you to get freed up. SIGH!)

Tell the truth, some of us didn't get transformed, we just got old!

Holiness is not a dance, it's not a choir. Holiness has never been external before it's internal. Stop making it things that can be manipulated and controlled!
Holiness is a genuine desire to seek and uphold what is righteous, to choose that which please God, brings life and goodness and is separate from all that is destructive, and corrupt NOT so I can look at myself as superior but so that I don't bring harm to myself or anyone around me because I walking in love! Do you know the first two commandments?

What BIBLE are we reading? Wait, are we reading?
Because we can't live off of PowerPoint snippets from Bible Study!

It's not either/or...it's BOTH/AND.
For the "hall monitors of holiness," calm down because I can teach liberty in Christ without opening the door for believers to think they can sin and write it off as "God knows my heart."

Do you know really know one of the key signs of the last times?
It's not a world that gets more corrupt...

It's a church that forgets how to love.
It's a church that forgets how to reach out.
It's a church that loses it fire.
It's a church that forgets it's purpose.
It's a church that forget's that the most precious thing to God is people.

And as the body of Christ,full of members/people, we are beating ourselves up pretty bad.

It's ok if you don't like it or share it.
It's so much easier for us to blame someone else.
Keeps us from having to look at ourselves.


Tuesday, September 23, 2014

Watch your mouth #createsomething

Hey, hey, how are my best girl friends? Heeeyyyy "brow"nistas, what's happening?

Ok. So, on the way into work this morning, my frustration (don't worry, I will explain in a few) inspired me to write a new post. Before, I jump into what's on my mind, I have a confession (more like a realization.)

I stink at blog posting.

There. I said it. Out loud. For the whole blog world to see.

Here is my problem. I accept that God has blessed me to be a wealth of wisdom. Through several outlets, I am able to pour into people's lives with insight and understanding. (Very grateful and humbled to do that.) However, with that being said, I have a very real fear of turning into one of those people who likes to hear themselves talk. You know the kind that has never had a bad idea, wrong bit of advice, and always has an answer (even if they are making it up as they go along)?

Yeah, I don't want to be one of those types.

Therefore, I avoid overwriting and over sharing because I have no desire to fill up this blog with empty information just for the sake of having something to say.

I apologize for the gaps in time of writing. The truth is, I like to write when I feel inspired, when I have something really important to say or share that I feel will change your life and help you to see the larger picture.

And, well, that doesn't happen all of the time.

I get a lot of "so, when is your next post?" and "OMG, you should totally (fill in the blank)."

I have come to the conclusion that flattery is the death of purpose and unwavering focus.

(Allow me to digress for a quick second, and then I will get back to the original point of my post.)

Did you know that people will "good idea" you into a hellish place? Oh, how many of us have fallen at the suggestion of what, or where, we would be good verses doing what we are both called to do and responsible. The truth is, you are probably good at a lot of things. It doesn't surprise me that people are able to thrive in more than one thing either. After all, we are made in the image of God, and He totally rocks at being great in more than one thing. I do believe, however, that each of us has specific areas where we make the most impact. Those are the areas where we should place our focus in order to fulfill our purpose. I mean Jesus was great at building things, but I am glad He stuck to the mission of the cross. Sure, thousands could have benefited from His table making skills, but billions have benefited from His ultimate purpose and sacrifice.

LESSON: Don't let anyone/anything flatter you away from what's most important.

OK. I'm done with that. Just think on that in your spare time.

Alright, so on to this title!

So, I mentioned earlier being frustrated.


As a (ok, I'm not typing all of what I do...ya'll know I have a million roles) life can get hectic really quick. There are so many times when I don't feel in control. Sometimes, I feel like I plug one hole and another pops up. All of this chaos can really interrupt my peace, my ability to focus, stay motivated, and have a positive outlook. There are so many times when I get tired of it always being something!

In my frustration, I begin to complain. My entire demeanor changes. I take on the look of defeat, pressure, anger, resentment and so many more emotions. It gets worse. I speak defeat, pressure, anger, resentment and more...

My husband (who is my favorite person on the planet) does it too from time to time.
We can be out driving on a nice day perhaps at a crowded mall. A few minutes in, he will sigh, blow loudly and then say, "we are never going to find a parking space." At that moment, I am like...

The nerve of me, right?
I turn to him and say, "now, why would you say that?!"
No. I want to know why would he speak such a thing into existence?

Now, before you enjoy his flaw (way more than you should), I challenge all of us to ask ourselves, "why would I say that?" Whatever "that" is because I know my husband isn't the only one who has a slip of the tongue thereby putting into motion a wave of negativity on accident. You and I are so guilty! Don't believe me? Find yourself in these:

I am tired.
I am agitated.
I am over it.
I am shut down.
I don't feel like it.
I don't want to.
I am yet holding on. (#churchfolks)
I want to quit.
I feel defeated.
I am not good enough.
I can't do that.
I am stressed.
I am overwhelmed.
I can't focus.

Bottom line: We all have loose lips, and they are causing major malfunctions in our lives.

I struggled with writing this blog (more like article) a little bit because we live in a day and time where EVERYONE is a motivational speaker or inspirational guru of some sort. I think I read somewhere that people have spent a ton of money on self-help books this year. (Hmmmm, go figure.)

Now, my new favorite thing to say when I am offering some uplifting knowledge to people is, "I am probably not going to say something you haven't heard before. I don't want you to judge this based on hearing something new. I want you to judge this based on whether or not you are doing something new. I know you have heard this before, but have you done anything with what you have heard?"

With that being said, my first question to you is: Have you changed your thinking and speaking habits yet?

God says it like this:
Death and life are in the power of the tongue,  
And those who love it will eat its fruit.  (Proverbs 18:21)

Do you know you are both creation and creator? Do you know that God created you, but also gave you creating ability? Ok, so you know.  Well, what are you doing about knowing?

Look, this ain't (yes, I said ain't) rocket science. I am not exactly curing cancer over here.
We all know that we have a part to play. Some call it speaking to the universe, being in control of your destiny, "tapping in," and more ( I can genuinely respect different views even if I do not agree with them.)

One day (not too long ago), I learned something. God showed me that my life didn't have to happen to me, but rather I could happen to my life. I have the power to create the kind of life I desire, and I am talking about more than things but the essentials that keep us not just living but thriving. Essentials like peace, joy, love (sounds like the fruits of the Spirit...check it out in the Bible in Galatians 5:22...it's a good read.) I just need to watch my mouth. I have what I say, and I found out I was saying somethings that I didn't like having. I was creating a less than satisfying world with my words. It was time to change that.

Which brings me to second point/question: What are you creating?


Truthfully, I am at such peace when I am creating something. I am a big bowl of creative stuff. I love to create. Just saying create makes me really happy.

There is freedom in creating. There is joy in seeing your creation come to life. I earnestly believe God wants all of us to experience this amazing feeling. He enjoys it all the time. I mean one look at creation and you can see that God clearly has no shortage when it comes to ideas.

Here's something for you: God created us where there is no shortage either in our ability to create and come up with things to create. You and I can create until our hearts can't take it anymore!

Are you creating? When is the last time you created something?
It's addictive!

I have discovered that each day I should at least do the following:
1. Spend time with God
2. Find someone or something to which I give cheerfully
3. Smack my husband on the butt (you can put whatever you like it here...I like smacking his rump)
4. Create something

Now, before you go and get analysis paralysis on me (which is the art of overthinking to the point of inactivity) let's just take the complicated out of it shall we?

It doesn't have to be big. There. Big sigh of relief.
You can't stop thinking of how to come up with $200K to secure Carnegie Hall for your banquet. Let's just start with finger foods at the free room at your local library. MMMkay?!

It can be any or more of the following: Create a...
1. memory
2. new space in your home (at least change the paint color on the walls)
3. happy moment for someone else
4. picture (get the kids crayons and draw something...be bold enough to put it on the refrigerator for the world to see)
5. business...plan (start with the a plan)
6. blog (look at that...anyone can write a blog...look at me)
7. t-shirt (turn your quirky quotes into a fashion statement)
and more...

It's not hard.

"Brow"nistas, I want for you what I want for myself:
A life with no limits, neverending peace, a whole heart, thriving Spirit, mouth that speaks life, and hands that create timeless, everlasting greatness (in whatever form) for generations to come.

Oh...and be on the lookout...I am creating something myself.

Love you.
Go speak life.
Go create something.

Tell me what you are going to create. Use #createsomething on Twitter @theonlyladyblair and Instagram @brownista1

Wednesday, May 28, 2014

Being Mary Jane, Olivia Pope, Love & Hip Hop, Real Housewives and Maya Angelou

Heeeeyyyyyyyyyy "brownistas!"

I know. I know. It's been FOREVER!

photo courtesy of babyoffboard.com

I can honestly say that I missed you, and I found out that you missed me too!

SOOOOOOO much has happened! I don't know where to start! Ok. Let's start with the most important. I FINALLY GRADUATED FROM SEMINARY!
Praise God from whom ALL blessings flow! It was the LONGEST 7 years of my life. This was my second Master's and to say that it kicked my tail would be an understatement! I went into the program single. Along the way, I picked up my wonderful husband, and these three little people who live in our house for free and keep calling me "mommy." (don't know why they think I am here to take care of them... the whole thing is just weird. Wait. I'm just joking. My sister works for Social Services. I don't need a knock on the door following this post.)
Needless to say, it was a true struggle at times trying to balance it all. There were so many times when I wanted to give up.

Ya'll don't hear me.

I was over it.

Look, I graduated from high school, college and already had a Master's. There were so many times when I just wanted to throw my hands up and walk away. Only thing stopping me was not wanting to pay good ole' Sallie Mae back for a degree that I didn't earn. That is the true definition of "not hot."
Seriously, I could not have completed this without God.

I can't do life without God.

As I look back over the years, I handled a lot. (Of course I didn't do it by myself but this is MY blog and I already gave my "thank you" speeches to everyone who contributed! Sheesh!) ANYWHO!
I didn't really know I had so many people watching me, but apparently when I walked across the stage, a whirlwind of emotion took over a lot of people close to me. Everyone just started running down the list of things I was doing, had done, and accomplished. I had to stand back, try to focus and realize they were talking about me! This was a little difficult to do seeing as though I had to decipher what they were saying through sobbing tears.

PAUSE FOR A MOMENT: Do you know how AWESOME you are? Sometimes, you have to have a conversation with someone on the outside to get a good scoop on you. The problem with so many of us is that we are "used to" ourselves. We have become common in our eyes and fail to see our power, potential and progress. It would do you some good to hear about yourself from a trusted source. I'm trying to tell you that you are pretty amazing!

Ok, and we're back from the commercial break.

There was so much in those 7 years. I guess if I had to sum up my journey, the last 7 years was about me truly deciding and walking in the kind of woman I was going to be. According to some biblical scholars, the number 7 represents completion.

How fitting is that?

7 years and I finally settled on what Eboni Akia Blair is going to represent and accomplish in this life.
1. Eboni Blair is going to be woman of God who fulfills her purpose as a messenger of the Gospel and a disciple maker.
2. Eboni Blair is going to be the kind of wife her husband needs.
3. Eboni Blair is going to be the kind of mother her children need.
4. Eboni Blair is going to be a professional, a business woman, an artist and most of all a servant.
5. Eboni Blair will be a woman of her word filled with humility and integrity.
6. Eboni Blair will live an unlimited life and allow God to use her however He sees fit.
7. Eboni Blair will leave a legacy, a proud one, that will impact generations to come.

That's it. That's my mission statement, vision outline, whatever you want to call it.

With the recent death of Maya Angelou, I really began to reflect. She left behind a powerful legacy.
Often we as women quote her renowned poem, "Phenomenal Woman" waving our womanhood banner proudly as we tell the world to hear us roar because we run it on our independent tip.

That's interesting. 

I wonder if we, as women today, can really claim the words in that inspiring literary work. Dr. Angelou wrote some riveting words filled with substance. Language that cries out everything buried deep within passion, life, soul, spirit...you know, the stuff that legendary women are made of.

In a day where we as women have so many choices before us as to what we want to reflect and represent, I am a little fearful of what we are admiring and choosing to adopt as our own identity. Don't worry, I am not going to bash anyone for watching "Scandal," "Being Mary Jane," or any of the Love and Hip-Hops or Real Housewives "reality" (it's not real, ya'll) series. I don't particularly watch them all, and when I do, I am not overtaken by the foolery and debauchery that we have labeled as "entertainment."
I am somewhat thrown off by us taking on these stories as our own, believing that what is portrayed is "real," and replacing our standards with these (fill in the blank because I am at a loss for words) standards. We tell ourselves we can watch religiously without being influenced. Well, I will leave that up to the experts to argue. My point is not to persuade you to change your television viewing schedule. No, beloved, a deeper issue has my attention.

I want you to really ask yourself, "what kind of woman am I called to be?" Dr. Angelou had an assignment that she spent her life fulfilling. Can you and I say the same?

Ahhh, there is so much I want to say to my generation of women!

I want you to examine everything, and I want you to seek God. Ask Him, with all sincerity, what He had in His wonderful mind when He determined the world could not function without your existence for such a time as this. When you have your answer, I want you to embrace it so much so that it pulsates through your blood, flows from your fingertips, leaks from your lips, and creates a fragrance so potent from your pores that it permeates the room long after your presence has departed.

There is a call for us to be more than quotes we repeat with no conviction to live them, Facebook statuses, Instagram pictures, 140 characters worth of empty wisdom on Twitter, cliches, and shadows. We're living in a day where we are believing our own self promotion. (Social networking is making that easy to do.) We are losing substance, the nature of true accomplishments, and the ability to know and establish the right priorities in the process.

You are an amazing creation.
It's simply mind blowing what you can do, and your ability is not even fully maximized.

I have done a lot in these last 7 years, but I can promise you that the next 7 are going to be nothing short of extraordinary.

So, I leave you with this--put your eyebrows on...we have work to do.

Until next time, "brownistas..."

Wednesday, December 11, 2013

Crazy Love

ALRIGHT! It's been awhile. Here is my soapbox.

One of the reasons I press so hard in Seminary is so that I can handle the Gospel, and the Word of God, with precision and care. It always hurts my heart when I see my fellow brothers & sisters in Christ mishandling the Word. It really hurts when I see us becoming distracted & not being about the business of our Heavenly Father.

Do you want to know what separates the believer from the world?
Before it's holiness,before it's righteous living and before it's any kind of religious behavior, if you had to answer the question, do you know?

It's called LOVE.

As a Christian, my love should be so powerful, so crazy that it will make the whole world stop and wonder how is it possible for me to love like that?
How is it that I love my enemies? How is it that I love my neighbor?
How is it that I love those that could never repay me?
How is my love so effective that it changes people's lives?
How does my love do that?

You know who else's love is crazy?...God's.
...for God so LOVED the world...
...the greatest of these is love...
...love covers a multitude of sin...
...they will know you by the love that you have for one another...
...if any man says he loves Me and yet does not love his brother...

Your religion won't help them. Your holiness is at times is an illusion. Your righteousness is as filthy dirty rags and your own standards are often full of contradiction.

Why are we so afraid to love? Love doesn't mean condoning anymore than it means condemning.
The world is hurt enough.
May God deal with us ever so harshly, if we add to it when we distort His Word and fail to keep His command to love.

If you don't have love...love that conquers, heals, restores, then you have nothing. Yes, as Christians we should stand out. We should be separate and matter. But not for the reasons we list.

You want to matter? You still want to stand out? Here is your chance.

Go love like God loves.

If you can't do that, then please try to refrain from doing anything else in His Name.

Wednesday, October 16, 2013

Faith in action...with eyebrows

"Brow"nistas! It has been awhile!
Oh, how I've missed  you.  I was in the process of writing a ridiculously long Facebook status, and the Spirit was like "ummmm, no. you betta write a blog post!"

So, I logged in after like 1,000 years and decided to reach out to my loves with some encouragement this fine Wednesday mid morning!

 As you know, we have been in the middle of a government shutdown. Yes, go United States!

I find that these times are great for spiritual insight. People are so attuned spiritually when the things in which they have placed their confidence have failed them.

With that being said, I want to offer some encouragement to all of my lovelies who are still attempting to hold it down and keep their head up.
Alright my sermon for the week:

We hear all the time that we have to have faith, but many of us don't really know what that means. So, here is some practical understanding and application:

Faith is believing God to be and do all that He says in His Word.

It's not just believing God.

God has a specific way He wants you to know Him. He is intentional about what He wants you to know about Him. There is a Word to address either His actions or His character. If you can't trace what He will do, then you can trace who He has been which never changes.

Sooooo...take this shutdown for example.

God doesn't need to hear about the details of how inconvenient the shutdown has been to compel Him to move.

He needs to hear who we believe Him to be according to His character and His Word.

What would happen if we started declaring His Word?
God responds to His Word.
Know His Word.
Know Him.

So, here are some passages to get you off of speaking about your situation and on to speaking what God promises and wants you to know.  I paraphrased, but apart of doing the work (cause the Word works if you work the Word) is actually going to the Bible, looking up the passage, reading it, taking it in, and speaking it until God's truth saturates your soul.

Soooo, here we go:
Phil 4:19 --God is a provider
Psalms 37:25 --God isn't new to providing
Numbers 23:19--God doesn't say one thing and do another.
Psalms 118:8--God is the only One who is trustworthy
Psalms 55:22--God cares and you can give Him your cares and concerns

God doesn't empower situations, He empowers people. God gives YOU the help. You helped, will help your situation. God needs you to KNOW this power because YOU can change the world.
To be at the mercy of life's circumstances is cruel. God has given us power over all circumstances. He will not water down life because we are afraid to embrace the power He has given us. No, He will not lessen your greatness. He will show you that you can in fact overcome. So, there is no need to spend countless hours on the details of the storm. At some point, as much as God cares, He will transition you to seek Him for the endurance to come out of the storm and be better than ever!

Here is a question to ask yourself: Do I have enough Word to meet the demands of my life?
Because my life isn't changing on its own, but I can change it if I have enough Word.
My life moves at the sound of the Word of God.
It doesn't move just because of my thoughts, but when I speak the Word, things come into alignment.

Beloved, it may be time to mature beyond one passage of scripture, a gospel song every now then and again, and some church quotes.

This is to encourage you.
Get enough Word to conquer your life.

You can do it.

Oh, put your eyebrows! It is NOT that bad!

Until next time!

Monday, July 1, 2013


Alright, "brow"nistas, I took a stab at a bit of devotional this morning. I had a topic weighing on my heart regarding how we as believers of Christ use social media. It really bothers me some of the things I read. So, I wrote a little blurb, not fussing, but praying that we would be more responsible.
I think I will teach a Bible Study topic on it. (Oh, I had to include the men folk this time. Don't worry, we will be back to it being just the girls...boy, bye!)

So, here it goes...

A discussion on responsible use of SOCIAL MEDIA (not going where you think I am going)

First, let me say this: TO THE WORLD, I SINCERELY APOLOGIZE!!!

Dear brothers & sisters in Christ.

Perhaps all things should not be discussed on Social Media.
My spirit is grieved at times where I read statuses and tweets that irresponsibly introduce topics of deep Biblical truths that can not be adequately explained on these platforms.

Let's be real: you and I know when our messages are laced with judgment however subtle we present them.

"You can do a lot of harm in the name of God." - Bishop Noel Jones
I never forgot that statement.

"9 And this I pray, that your love may abound still more and more in knowledge and all discernment" Phil 1:9

Yes, there is no love without truth; however, there is no truth without love.

None of us could bear the reality of our sin, our shortcoming, our distance between God and our failing flesh.
He sent His Son with love, redemption, repentance, reconciliation and hope. Christ spent 33 years walking among us, taking His time that we may know and trust fully the heart of the Father.
God fed us His truth with love. He seasoned it with grace, mercy, understanding & wisdom.

Yet we feed His people harshly.
We force them to swallow what we have had time to digest.
We cast onto FB statuses and expect them to understand and accept in a day what has taken us years.
We take our private revelations, tailor made for us by God, and make them public mandate.

This should not be.

We tell the world they don't want to hear the truth when it is us who have spoken, not being led by the Spirit, but in answer to our swelling egos and self righteousness inclinations.
Just because we can say it, doesn't mean we should say it.
Just because we can type it, doesn't mean we should type it.

I come not to condemn.
I address this publicly because we have offended publicly.
I love each of you.
I only ask that you "love your neighbor as yourself."
Maybe we should all meditate on that for awhile.

When we realize that what we hold as the message of the Gospel is so precious perhaps we will not be so eager to present it in a fashion that results in the greatest message ever shared falling on deaf ears.

Sometimes, it's not that people don't want to hear about God; it's they don't want to hear from us.

Have we forgotten how gentle He was with us?
His truth lives forever.
His Word works whether we shout it or speak it with kindness and a humble heart.

God doesn't need us to defend Him. He needs us to represent Him.

He gave us one approach and one posture to take with the world.
It's the same one He takes.

"For God so LOVED the world..."
"They will know you by this, how you LOVE one another..."

I leave you with this:

Any man who brings up God in a conversation, or exchange, and does not impart hope and love has failed.

Friday, June 21, 2013

A sense of adventure...

What's up "brow"nistas!
It's summer! It's Friday!

Life is great. God is better.

It's summer time and summer is often the season for adventure. This is the time we get out, travel, put the top down on the car, visit restaurants we haven't tried, and spend our days outdoors seeing what we can get into! It's an exciting time! Well, I want to encourage you, my dear "brow"nistas. I want you to spend your summer days trying something new.

Recently my darling husband accompanied me to the hair salon. For months, he has been begging me to change my hair color and try some new looks.

I would have NEVER picked out those shoes #jeffreycampbell
Now, let me tell you about my husband's sense of style. He is bold, daring, and has a keen sense for what stands out. (Could be from his previous days of street hustling that awakens his flare for the extravagant..just saying)  I have to admit that he is responsible for some of my most "adventurous" ensembles. (check out the kicks in the pic on the right)

What I love about him is that he requires me to come out of my comfort zone. On the inside I feel like this "glamazon" who is free and confident. In real life, I tend to play it safe. Yup, I go along with the trend of the moment not straying too far from what is acceptable and comfortable. However, I have always been a free spirited gal who loves to try new things and have artistic expression. This is why I love to play in makeup. It's art for me. I get to create and transform.

Ok, back to our regularly scheduled program...

So, the husband, who was on his way to the barbershop decided to swing past and add his two cents as to how my hair should look. He even went so far as to walk with the assistant to the beauty store next door so that he could provide his onsite consultant skills as she picked up the necessary products! (really, dude?)

Sooo, we ended up with this...

and I even have on my EYEBROWS!

I absolutely LOVE my new hair! I would have never picked out the color. I would have stayed a bit toned down, but I was sooooo at a loss for words when it was done (big shout out to my stylist Diamond who "smoked my wig, honey!") I left the salon feeling empowered and like a new woman! Now that my husband encouraged me to get out of the box and embrace how I wanted to express myself, I am completely hooked and ready to take on more adventures!

As a wife, mom and more, it can be hard to hold on to your sense of adventure. 

It was all his idea and I found myself getting emotional because my husband has been a huge supporter of me taking the time I need for myself (one of the many reasons I just love him!) He is always encouraging me and speaking life into me when I feel like I am failing. I need that. I need him because, let's face it, sometimes, we can feel very defeated in trying to do everything. I know at times I avoid adventure because I feel consumed believing there is no time for anything outside of the day to day routine.

But, "brow"nistas, if we don't stop, color outside the lines a bit, try something new, seek a new experience, we will die! Life is meant to be lived. God has given us so much to explore. He has given us so much talent. We owe it to God to put forth an effort.

Life is more than bills, recitals, soccer practice, meetings, bath time, dinner, etc. It's more than checklists and to do's. You have to insert a little bit of adventure into your life. As a mom, that's a great lesson to teach your kids! Teach them to live and try new things! (On a personal note, I can't stand to hear a kid tell me what they don't like. HELLO, you haven't been alive long enough to have preferences! You betta eat this and LIKE IT!)

"Brow"nistas, don't let this summer or this life pass you by without you taking some time to have some adventure! It may be a new hairstyle, a trip, a new place in your city that you haven't visited...whatever! Just get out, slap on your brows, and hit the town!

Go ahead...never lose your sense of adventure.

Until next time...